The Latest on MLD

I didn't even go out seeking her this time at all. I haven't worried about MLD for a while, especially since Aerith and I began dating.

A month or so ago, I did notice that MLD's side profile had popped back up on my "People You May Know" tab. However, I decided not to call her out on my own page again like I had before. If she's that curious to see how well I'm doing than that's on her.

Oddly, the latest craziness with her didn't even come from her directly.

Since I'm not longer friends with her on social media and she blocked me from her main page, I never see any of the drama playing out in her life. Which is totally fine with me as there's usually a lot.

Well, this time, a mutual friend of ours on social media shared a post where they were asking for more information on MLD's oldest son. Apparently, she hadn't heard from him for a few days and it was worried that he was in crisis. 

I read through the comments and got as much information on the matter as possible: it looks like he has moved to a different town (which is for the best since his hometown had too many negative influences) and said to his mom the last time he spoke to her that he wanted to be left alone.

Needless to say, I was worried about him as I've seen him grow up from afar for years. Without going into too much detail on his backstory (as I don't feel it's my place to say), both his brother and himself have had a ton of trauma in their lives due to a certain family member. It led him down a very self destructive path. He always seemed like a good kid but just made poor decisions. With the baggage he's forced to carry around mentally everyday, I can't blame him.

Two things I also noticed about the post when looking it over. First, it was actually from two days before I first read it. Secondly, it featured a link to MLD's main page. And I was actually able to click on said link.

So, I go to her page and expect to see a similar post asking for updates on her son or for him to contact her directly. Instead, I see a picture from that day of her cuddling with a cat. She was asking people if they wanted to adopt it and talking about how the cat is really sweet.

No pleas to her son or the public. No updates. Nothing.

Had the situation been blown out of proportion or does she not really care anymore?

I didn't engage with her at all to find out. Once again though, it just seems like a black hole of drama seems to constantly surround her and sucks everyone into it. Including me. Even though I had no intention of ever speaking to her again.

Ugh.

All I can say is that I hope he's alright and that she can get her priorities straight. Sadly, I fear that, because of his past trauma, her son will either end up in prison for most of his adult life or dead at a young age.

I hope I'm wrong.

With her, I doubt there will ever be a sense of normalcy. There's just too much negativity and drama constantly surrounding her and lots of it is from her instigating it.

I know I'm right.

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