New Year's Resolution

As we all look back on 2025, we're more than ready to move on to 2026. Seriously, for the world at large, this past year was an absolute dumpster fire. Like the worst since COVID for sure. The reason why is obvious and 2028 can't come soon enough.

But I digress.

For me specifically, the year wasn't too bad when it comes to personal growth and experiences.

My weight loss journey continued as I've lost nearly 100 pounds since last year. I stepped out more and more as Trixie as the year progressed. I've even gotten back into the dating game (hopefully making progress on that tonight 🙂).

Overall, there were lots of positives in 2025 as I look towards 2026.

Lots of people go big with their resolutions for the new year:

"I want to quit smoking or drinking."

"I want to lose 50 pounds."

"I want to get married."

"I want to learn a new skill."

The problem is that life doesn't always make these goals achievable. At least within the following year. We have good and bad days. We fall back into old habits. We don't have the right mindset to conquer a certain obstacle.

I'm not saying don't try to fulfill your plans if any of these are your goals for the new year. All I'm saying is it's okay if you fail. The important thing is to get back up and keep trying. Failure is not the end. It's just a new beginning.

As for me, I don't have any grand plans for a new year's resolution. I'm in a really good spot mentally and (somewhat) physically. I don't smoke, only drink socially, and the only drugs I take are those prescribed. My weight can fluctuate here and there but not as much as it did before. I simply can't eat that much anymore at a time.

For my budding relationship, I know that it's just starting out and it's a marathon instead of a sprint. I'm not forcing anything if Aerith and I aren't on the same page. I'll simply go with the flow and see where things end up. If things don't work out, I can at least say I tried. If it does end up in a relationship, all the better. 🙂

All I want out of the new year is to continue to grow as a person myself, continue to be the best I can as a parent, a child, and a friend. If I can do that, then 2026 will be a success.

I won't lie though: a kiss at midnight tonight would be wonderful. 😊

That'll do it for me this week. I'll be taking the rest of it off to enjoy the new year and my birthday this weekend. I'll be back with you on Monday to report how my night went and how my birthday goes on Sunday.

Stay safe tonight everyone. Have a wonderful New Year's Eve and weekend, my loves.

-Trixie 😘 ❤️ 

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